Recently, i posted a question to some of my girl friends. If they are in korean drama where there are 2 guys loves them. where the:
First guy : Perfect guy means has stability in financial, emotional, kind to her, sacrifice a lot for her and also love her very much. If you with him, you can rest assure that you will been taking care of.
Second guy : Normal guy means from the eye of people he still have no stability. He is nice and sacrifice a lot for her also but when you with him, you will have more complicated problem. the biggest thing that you consider about him that you enjoy with him. you really do feel that you have life.
and to my surprise or may be its normal, all the girl will follow as what the actress in korean drama chose. Guy no 2. if woman use their brain, they will choose no 1. because life will be easier. less problematic.
but God created woman with feeling. and sometime they willing to sacrifice themselves for something that they love. Woman feeling cant be trade with wealth. when woman choose you because of wealth, that for sure she dont have any feeling towards you.
so girls, who will you choose?
guys, if you are the first guy what will you do?
3 comments:
Hi UL, how are you? hehehe. I have not talked to you in ages :) (hope you are doing fine?).
I like your question (a likely question and so like you to ask the question). But I would have to say that I would have to choose Guy no.1 (not because it is about about the brains, or that it is a sensible thing to do). I would choose guy no.1 - the decision is about being wise in your decisions, because we are not made to be foolish... (and if you feel that Guy no.2 is the right one for you, why not, but do not make rash decisions). I would also think you have fun with guy no.1 (and if you are attracted to each other) what is it to say you would not have fun with guy no.1, if you do share the same interests (if you do not share the same interests, or only just share some of the interests than you have liked him because he is financially stable, not because of his character or the person). I think falling in love, it is a bonus on top of the life that God has already provided for you.
And also with Guy no.1, you will encounter the same problems as you would encounter with Guy no.2. God did create women with feelings, but He did not tell you to be foolish or rash about the decisions made. And you have to be wise (and it is not always about the heart, when you follow your heart you are making a 'human decision' that did not come from God) and if either decision made did not come from God who is to say that it will be Guy no.1 or Guy no.2 (it could be neither, although they are good, but if they do not align with Good's plans for you, you will not have either one of them. God will have someone else chosen for you). Okay, that is the conclusion I have come to, hehehe :)
hahaahha.. yup, if you do think wisely (where we dont involve feeling as our main consideration to choose a guy) we will choose a guy no 1.
i do agree with your statement where God give us the wisdom to choose. :)
and i talked to a friends who she always turned to guy no 2 in her life and end up quite sad. she really follow her heart fully without think wisely. and she do agree that if she allow wisdom to take place it will be better.
im doing good here. this question just pop up in my mind. after i think a lot of korean drama. hahahhahaa
Hi Yul, you are funny girl, you and your korean drama, what a tv series, hahaha
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