Desperate Housewife

I love to watch Desperate Housewife. From all the actresses, I think i can identify myself with Lynette. She like to control her family, and sometime she cant let her husband to lead her. Her past follow her till she married and have kids. She have fear that if she dont control it, her family will be ruin or she dont want her husband to take a silly decision.

Well, i like to take control. I have fear that if i dont take control, i will regret Yup, I know that i have to conquer this fear. Because i believe that God is the one take control over my life.

in the Season 6 episode 24, i can learn a lot of think from different person in this series.

1. Bree

Bree is a great Mom. As what a mother will do their kids, that she do to her kids. She protects andrew from taking responsibility of killed Carlos's Mom. through an accident few years back, when andrew still young, he drove a car and hit Carlos's mom.

Orson, her husband doesnt agree with Bree not to let andrew to take responsible when now he is adult. and he mentioned to Bree that she is compromising with her believe and become hypocrite. Bree believes that in life you have to do right things and she is a religious woman. Bree tried to excuse that she have no other choice but protect andrew. but Orson made a good statement where he said that she have a choice whether want to let andrew to learn to take responsibility. And Orson choose to break up with Bree because she is no the Bree that he knows.

In the end of the episode, Bree take courage and choose to stand again with her believe. She chose to talk to Gaby (Carlos's wife) about the accident.

2. Eddie and Lynette

Eddie is from a broken family. He thirst of motherly love. He felt that her mother ignored him and do not want him. and many times that he is trapped with the kindness of a woman. He becomes violence. Lynette who has the same past as him that she came from a family where the mother also dunk everyday, understand Eddie's feeling.

Lynette welcome Eddie into her house and be a part in her family. She tries to help Eddie to gain back his confident.

Eddie had killed so many woman in Fairview. and in the end Lynette find out that Eddie killed his mom. Eddie cant let Lynette tell police about what his criminal. in the climax, Lynette water broke. and Eddie helps her to give birth. Eddie plan to run away after helping Lynette. But Lynette challenges him to take responsibility over what he did. And Lynette told Eddie that he is her son also and it will make her proud of him .

Acceptance, Love, Approval, that's all what Eddie needs. So he surrender himself and admit to police.

3. Gaby

Gaby knows Angie not long ago. And even she had some clashes with Angie. Gaby's life is full of secret because she doesnt want to lose to anyone. Somehow, she found that Angie's life is full of secret also. that makes the two of them become friend. After Angie confess her secret to Gaby, Gaby promised her that she will help her all the way for whatever it may take.

So when Patrick found Angie house and try to kill her and Danny, Gaby really go all the way to help Angie. She even risk her life.

So, what are those things that i can learn from this 3 incident?

1. Compromising and Responsibility

because we fell that we have a good reason, our tendency is to compromise with what we believe or even to compromise with what God tough us to do. and where in the end we lose our identity. we take over His role. and in the end Andrew cant grow up in taking his responsibility over his life. and its spoiled him.

2. Life is full of choice

Everyday we need to decide which choice that we choose. what to eat, where to go, with who you want to go, what time you want to sleep, and so on.

So what is your choice today? is it the right things to do?

3. Do right thing

as what happen to Bree and Eddie, they made mistake before in chose to do wrong things. But you can to choose to do right things right now. Dont do wrong things to cover wrong things.

Anythings that you need to do right now in order to turn from your wrong choice?

Someone will rebuke you in order to make you realize that you have to change.

4. Friendship

I'm impressed by what Gaby did to Angie. Where she really treasure Angie as her friend. Well sacrifices are needed in friendship. Love without action is death. So if you want to have a strong friendship, you have to base it on love and do action on it.

In this story, its really reflect our daily life. how we perceive your neighbors or how your life only base on people opinion. I believe when you really take note on the people's character in this story, you can identify yourself. Which role can you identify yourself?